... If I were you ...

If I were you, I would always love myself in the 1st place...

And If somehow I forget to love myself for just one second, I would stop what I am doing and re-start loving myself...

Because

At anytime, I need to love myself first and the most!


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If I were you, I would learn to let go...

Because

I know I lose myself when I am around her

I am no longer the happy and funny person

I am just always a sad person that annoy the shit out of her

I know I want myself back, so, If I were you, I would leave everything behind to re-start my life...

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If I were you, I would go to work everyday

Work makes me feel powerful and creative

I get to see people and I feel good about myself when I get things done

And I know,

Even your whole inside world breaks down,

the rest on Earth is still moving

Life doesn't wait for anyone, include you and me!

So KEEP MOVING FORWARDS! (The Robinsons)

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If I were you, I would define the problems in the relationship

I would understand that both her and I were not happy together

Despite the sweet time we had,

PROBLEMS are there

We fight a million times over the same old annoying topic

IT'S NEVER GOT SOLVED

There is no solutions

It's something we can't get over... And it tears over relationship apart...

I would acknowledge the issues

and I understand that We could not go along in certain things...

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If I were you, I would not look at it as a 'Break-up'

but

A BREAK- OVER!

Yahooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

I finally get a chance to write a new chapter of my life where I play the most important role

I will re-design my living area

I will catch up more with my kick-ass friends

I will travel to see the rest of the world

I will spend quality time with my FAMILY

I will give myself some presents

I will get a new closet

A new pet ( a Bunny is a good idea)

A new little garden (It's fun to look after the plants and to watch them growing)


I'll get this chance to design my life and do whatever I want to do but I can't because I was with her

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If I were you, I would NOT cry

If I were you, I would bravely let her go because at the end of the day, I want each other to be happy.... 2 awesome people sometimes can not be together (like Barny and Robin in 'How I meet your mother') because they over-shine each other...

If I were you, I would focus on my life, my family and my friends who love me like crazy...

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No break-up is easy

But

It's not impossible!

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Myself, I'm glad

that

I have let my Ex go

because

I know the relationship did not work out

I was not even myself anymore when I was with him

Take a look at me now!!!

I'm proud that I got over my break-up, I am myself who is always so happy and active

I have a beautiful family

A wonderful fiance'

And many kick-ass friends who I did not have when I was with him

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If I were you, I would

GET ON WITH MY LIFE!

because

sometimes, being with a wrong person teaches me to treasure the right person

and

I believe

Everyone deserves to be happy

INCLUDING YOU, my beloved friend!

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From Issy to B**** with lots of love!
Xoxo