Thursday, May 27, 2010

... If I were you ...




If I were you, I would always love myself in the 1st place...

And If somehow I forget to love myself for just one second, I would stop what I am doing and re-start loving myself...

Because

At anytime, I need to love myself first and the most!


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If I were you, I would learn to let go...

Because

I know I lose myself when I am around her

I am no longer the happy and funny person

I am just always a sad person that annoy the shit out of her

I know I want myself back, so, If I were you, I would leave everything behind to re-start my life...

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If I were you, I would go to work everyday

Work makes me feel powerful and creative

I get to see people and I feel good about myself when I get things done

And I know,

Even your whole inside world breaks down,

the rest on Earth is still moving

Life doesn't wait for anyone, include you and me!

So KEEP MOVING FORWARDS! (The Robinsons)

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If I were you, I would define the problems in the relationship

I would understand that both her and I were not happy together

Despite the sweet time we had,

PROBLEMS are there

We fight a million times over the same old annoying topic

IT'S NEVER GOT SOLVED

There is no solutions

It's something we can't get over... And it tears over relationship apart...

I would acknowledge the issues

and I understand that We could not go along in certain things...

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If I were you, I would not look at it as a 'Break-up'

but

A BREAK- OVER!

Yahooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

I finally get a chance to write a new chapter of my life where I play the most important role

I will re-design my living area

I will catch up more with my kick-ass friends

I will travel to see the rest of the world

I will spend quality time with my FAMILY

I will give myself some presents

I will get a new closet

A new pet ( a Bunny is a good idea)

A new little garden (It's fun to look after the plants and to watch them growing)


I'll get this chance to design my life and do whatever I want to do but I can't because I was with her

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If I were you, I would NOT cry

If I were you, I would bravely let her go because at the end of the day, I want each other to be happy.... 2 awesome people sometimes can not be together (like Barny and Robin in 'How I meet your mother') because they over-shine each other...

If I were you, I would focus on my life, my family and my friends who love me like crazy...

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No break-up is easy

But

It's not impossible!

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Myself, I'm glad

that

I have let my Ex go

because

I know the relationship did not work out

I was not even myself anymore when I was with him

Take a look at me now!!!

I'm proud that I got over my break-up, I am myself who is always so happy and active

I have a beautiful family

A wonderful fiance'

And many kick-ass friends who I did not have when I was with him

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If I were you, I would

GET ON WITH MY LIFE!

because

sometimes, being with a wrong person teaches me to treasure the right person

and

I believe

Everyone deserves to be happy

INCLUDING YOU, my beloved friend!

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From Issy to B**** with lots of love!
Xoxo

... A THOUGHT ABOUT A MOM-TO-BE ...


My girlfriend just finds out that she is pregnant with her first baby...

I'm so happy for her...

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Having a little angel inside you is always an amazing experience...

The love gets bigger everyday

The bond develops closer and closer as the baby gets bigger and bigger...



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It gives me a bit of thought today about the pregnancy thing...


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An angle is coming to the world!

Sunday, May 23, 2010

What my life is all about these days...



Lately, my life is full of excitements and happiness...


I feel extremely lucky...


Lately, my life is all about arts, beautiful friendships and my understanding fiance'....


I sing with all my heart... In peak time of uni-life, I try to find time to do recording and stuff... I join dancing class.... No longer in the boring routine, my life is full of new things everyday...


I love my friends.... Each of them make my day.... Daniel is always caring.. He worries about all of us.... Johny and Vu Nguyen are crazy and psyched about my ideas. And most important, we do things together just because WE LOVE TO DO IT!!!


My fiance' may be the only dinosaur that still exists. He is understanding and supportive... I know to treasure him and his trust!!!



I'm thankful because i have all the best people in the world around me!!!


Thanks all!!!


Isabelle' - Tram Le